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Old 24-03-2007, 07:49 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

Just come back from Vn today...Been staying with my gf at her house with her family..which consist of her mum, dad, younger brother, her aunt(who flew from Danang to meet me), her cousin, cousin's bf and another older cousin. Supposed to go from 19th to 21st but was persuaded by her aunt and my gf to stay longer till today...so have to change the tickets for both of us..

I never meet such a good family who treat me really very well...whenever they invite me to go with them, they always refuse to let me pay..normally her aunt will stay behind to take care of the house and even instruct my gf's mum that dont allow me to pay, if my gf's mum dont pay then she will pay..and my gf's mum replied her that she know this..I tried to pay at the 1st meal outside but my gf tell me dont need...subsquence meal outside its always the same...till I tell my gf to tell her mum that I need to at least treat them once...and her mum said dont need...have the thought is enough...

So I left with no choice but to bring her aunt's daughter and her bf to go out eat and followed by cafe at MTV star...little then I know....her aunt pass my gf money and instructed her to pay for all the bill...I came to know of it...and refuse to use the money and in the end it end up in my gf's pocket...

Dont really spend much in vn except on taxi which I pay for every taxi we took no matter who is inside...normally it is only the younger generation took the taxi...her dad and her mum will take their own motorbike....

Never have a chance to meet up with any friends...even meeting up with SingViet in vn is only for less than 10 mins...

Today I left her house and her family..feeling quite heavy at heart...and I guess my gf feel the same too athough she dont really like to stayin VN forever but no matter what her family and her hometown is there...

I never been to a family which treat me till so good...when leaving that time..the heart feel no good...but no choice must leave...cant extend the stay anymore..and when I reach Singapore....my gf pass me some money again...saying it is from her aunt...say lucky money....and told me that it is enough to cover for changing the ticket's extension....told me that she cant pass me when I am in VN becos she know that I will not take it...as initially when she asked us to stay longer and offer to pay, I refused...

On knowing that...my heart seem to be in VN...at her house...but body in Singapore