[warbird]

Originally Posted by robotics

Bro WB,

Hope you enjoy yourself in Gotham City.

I cannot agree more with you that money don't equate to high quality life and high status.

"不是有钱没钱或美丑的问题, 而是教养，气质，地位，身份不一样"

Sounded very nice.

Thanks and happy weekend.

Originally Posted by robotics

I learned something important today. Cheers.

Bro, tks.

If all a man has is ill-gotten money and very little else, he is worth very little. And he could pose a clear n present danger to our civil society.

Originally Posted by DeLigt

Cannot agree more too, and very nice indeed.

Thanks bro WB for a great thread and enjoy yourself.

Cheers.

Originally Posted by amaniman

Same here, I learnt too.

Thanks and merry weekend.

Originally Posted by dossear

Support bro WB and this fantastic thread!

Bros, tks.

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Good afternoon,

What an auspicious day!

I hv made many, many mistakes in my life w/ girls/women, especially in my earlier years. Due primarily to negative social and cultural conditioning.
The biggest and most intractable mistake I hv made w/ women is my belief that girls and women are attracted to men exactly the same way I'm attracted to them.

I'm a very visual person n a perfectionist. I only want a very pretty girl who has the right body and limb proportions of my type. If a girl passes my visual test, then and only then will I consider her other attributes such as intelligence, personality, education, character and family background, etc.

BTW, I hv never seen a girl who is physically and anatomically perfect.

I always believe that girls are also attracted exactly the same way to men. Perhaps 99.9% of men also have the same erroneous belief.

I used to feel that I didn't deserve very chio n sexy girls because I was not tall and handsome enough.

I married a young and very beautiful TW woman decades ago. Most of my colleagues, relatives and friends believed that she married me primarily because of my prestigious profession.

She often mentioned that she was not attracted to very handsome and muscular men. I thought she was a very rare exception. Or just saying that to please me.

Until I met 18 yo TY who said exactly the same thing.

They both more or less said: "不是有钱没钱或美丑的问题, 而是教养，气质，地位，身份不一样." They also place great value on a man's intelligence, value to society, trustworthiness, character and emotional mastery. Were they twin sisters?

But it's very hard to reprogram my subconscious mind to erase ALL the negative beliefs and conditionings. I'm making slow progress...if it was easy, I would be enlightened now.

Here is Number One Mistake men made w/ women, according to Marni the wing girl.

Mistake #1: Believing That a Woman’s
Attraction for a Man is Based on Physical
Appearance.


LOOKS ARE NOT AS IMPORTANT TO WOMEN, AS THEY ARE TO MEN.
In fact, looks are FAR less important to women, than almost all men seem to
think. So get that through your ego: Your issues about how you look, are all in your head.

Women make their mating decisions based on emotion, feelings and internal
intuition. Not reason. Certainly not just looks. Where men often just go for looks, women use an entire gamut of values and indicators which all tend to be internal and intrinsic to the man himself. Often these are only intuited by a woman, not considered consciously.

The important difference is that women are not turned on by the same triggers which men are (women really don’t care if you wear sexy makeup and lingerie).

They are turned on by vastly different indicators.
Primarily those are Character, Strength and Perceived Value. These indicators
are demonstrated (and enhanced) by certain behaviors (confidence, proactive
actions, fun) which a man can learn by “going to the gym,” so to speak.

Unfortunately, society has taught men that they need to be submissive, “nice” and practically sycophantic in order to attract women. (SO not true!)

Consequently, many men will try to attract a woman by buying her gifts and
dinners and stuff for a short time; by bein g a listening, attentive puppy dog and by acting just like one of her girlfriends.

When this doesn't work for them, men start to think “Why?” Or “What is it that women want?” This is usually the point where they start trying to convince the woman “b but I’m nice!” (Which only makes it worse.)

I want a woman who is hot, so women must want a
man who is hot. They don't seem to want ME. Therefore I must be ugly.” Wrong again.

This usually ends up hurting the guys, far more than
it helps. (Honestly? It doesn't help at all.) Most guys just seem to feel they are intrinsically ugly, somehow. So they don’t even bother with going to the gym, grooming or buying nice clothes. Any one of which might actually have solved the problem all by itself, for some of them.

I can’t count the number of times I’ve seen men fail to approach a woman
when the situation was so perfectly in their favor because they thought they
“didn’t look good enough.” Or they felt that the woman would reject them based on their looks.

Men get so hung up on how they view women, that they think
women will view them in the exact same way. A lot of times, this is just a stalling tactic men use, trying to find any way to avoid approaching. (More on that, later.)

When a man first approaches a woman, she will judge him entirely on his looks and how he presents himself. What else does she have to judge on? It’s only been 5 seconds. (Again: She only uses his looks as a method of determining if he has Character, Strength anhe has Character, Strength and Value.)

Then, something interesting happens to a woman, after she begins to interact
with a man. And it’s usually right after the first 5 or 10 seconds. She starts to
FEEL him. And from that feeling , she will automatically sense a man’s
Character, Strength and Value.

Regardless of whether you are rich or poor, good looking or plain, fat or thin,
bald or have a thick head of hair; if you can master the art of projecting a quality energy, which women can feel... You can light up a woman's Primal Attraction Circuitry like a Christmas tree!

This is great news for you, because “amplifying your quality energy” is an easily teachable skill, which I will definitely teach you!

In other words, I can take you from being a complete failure with women to
being a regular Rock Star. Mr. Holy S&*T, I Want Him!!!

But I’ll get to that later.


Good night to all samsters,

Bro WB