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Originally Posted by warbird
Bro, tks for your post.
I always tell the girl, whoever she is, that I'm married with kids. The girl will like me more. In fact, I'll also tell her I hv a young mistress. She will be intrigued.
They shun you when you tell them you're married? Maybe they are hoping to marry you. Who are these girls?
A married man w/ kids and having one or more young mistresses strongly suggests that he is a very healthy, virile, and testosterone filled man.
Perhaps the girl shuns you for other reasons. She may be uncomfortable w/ you body language or voice quality. Or your behaviour is too needy and insecure. There are many other possible reasons. One not uncommon one is that your body scent signals to her subconscious mind that you two are quite close genetically. Amazing but true.
"Women prefer male partners with differing MHC genes from themselves."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_o...ual_attraction
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/a...nd-sensibility
Cheers!
Bro WB |
Bro, thanks for your detailed post. The girls that shun me reply along this line when I asked them to be my 情人 or girlfriend, with them knowing I am married: 我可不要被打/女人何必为难女人/你有家庭，好好过日子吧
Probably you are right that sometimes I might behave needy or insecure. Will learn from you to be frank with them irregardless.
Regarding the body scent, that is something interesting.