Originally Posted by warbird
Hi HepllessGal.
Tks for your posts.
Yeah, I always tell everyone I'm married w/ kids. And I also say I hv SYT mistresses too.
There are many male sociopaths and psychopaths. A few are even serial killers.
Girls must choose their male partners very carefully and WISELY.
I don't know what happened in your relationship w/ your "previous guy."
Did he become violent?
Such a man is behaving like a little boy. He is needy, insecure and fearful. Very poor emotional and self-mastery. No, he doesn't really believe he is the prize at his subconscious level. He has a scarcity mindset. If he were the prize, would he get angry or violent if a girl wanted to leave him? Of course not. It would be her big loss.
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Good afternoon to all samsters,
What an auspicious day!!
Since a "prize mindset" was mentioned by a samster, I like to expand on this most important attribute of a MAN.
Here is a paragraph from a book written by Mike W.
Always Assume Women Are Interested In You
Princes Leia: I love you
Han Solo: I know
—Star Wars: Episode V - The Empire Strikes Back
When a man thinks a woman doesn’t like him, she can feel his
nervous energy and insecurities creeping and crawling along the surface
of her skin. Though she might pity the lovable loser, her attraction for him
dwindles to a suicidal zero.
On the other hand, when a man assumes a woman is interested, his
Prizability increases in her eyes.
But here lies the problem: many a man doesn’t assume a woman is
interested until she gives him some sign: her eyes point at his ass as she
utters, “impressive,” her little paws fondle him, her bra juts out an extra
few inches, or something else.
While the man waits with the patience of a well-behaved schoolgirl for
her to signal interest, his Prizability plummets.
Don’t wait for a woman to show interest in you. Instead, assume she
thinks you’re a sought after Prize from the get-go. Better yet, imagine
that she sees you as a giant sausage with feet and feels compelled to
molest you. As a result, she’ll see you as a Prize.
There are two parts to assuming a woman is interested.
The first is the inner game. You have to believe the woman is interested in you.
The second is the outer game. There are specific things you can say and do
that effectively communicate to women that you assume they’re
interested in you.
Both are equally important and each one is handicapped without the
other.
You can genuinely believe a woman is interested in you. But if you
don’t know the right way to communicate it to her, it will do no good.
Likewise, you could have dozens of witty remarks that assume a
woman is interested sitting on the tip of your tongue and waiting for you
to cannonball them at a sexy vixen. But if you don’t believe the woman
is interested, you’ll unconsciously communicate your insecurity in your
intonation and body language.
When your words aren’t congruent with
your beliefs, intonation, and body language, they’re rendered useless –
regardless of how much wit or humor they pack.
Often, when women notice this incongruence, they’ll test to see how
much Prizability you lack. (When we get to the sections on Prize testing,
I’ll teach you how to handle this situation.
The minute you think your girl/woman is the prize and that she has higher social and sexual value than you, it's the beginning of the end of your relationship.
It doesn't matter if you hv been w/ her 3 hours or 30 years. It doesn't matter if you're a real prince/king or Don Juan himself or "the sexiest man alive."
Cheers!
Bro WB
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