Originally Posted by warbird
Tks, bros.
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Happy New Year to all samsters!
I have found the following interesting. From a small ebook How To Attract Any Girl
Attributes and Personality Traits Women Find Irresistible
There are certain personality traits that you can cultivate which women find completely irresistible. The thing is that a woman will be attracted and stay attracted to a man, who can make her feel good when she is with him, or is thinking about him. This means that your personality is your most powerful asset because you can use it to make women feel good.
For example, one thing women love is a man with a sense of humor. The more you can make her laugh, the more she will want to spend time with you.
Likewise, women are attracted to intelligent men, especially those who know how to use that intelligence to surprise her and engage her.
Education is another powerful weapon you can use because women love to hear stories about people or places. Not only will you always have a topic to talk about but it will be something interesting that engages her rather the same boring rote topics most guys talk about, like her favorite color or where she works.
Women are also attracted to dominant men, even if they don't realize it. Biologically, women have been hardwired to seek the protection of a male and the more dominant the man, the better the chance he has at protecting her.
However, don't mistake being dominant with being controlling. You need to dominate the situations in your life rather than being controlling of her and taking away her individuality.
Men who are thoughtful are also very attractive to women. You see, women aren't overjoyed when they receive a gift because of the gift itself but because it is proof that you were thinking of them. The gift is merely a symbol. So any display of the fact that you were thinking about her will make her feel good.
If you want to really impress a woman, then you need to learn to notice details. You see, women spend a lot of time making sure they look good, so if she has a nice hairdo, it wasn't an accident. She isn't wearing that hot dress because the wardrobe fell on her either. She is trying to impress you and if you notice these details, she will be extremely impressed that you noticed her attempts to be attractive to you.
Women also like men who are aggressive, but not in the sense that you won't take no for an answer. That's called date rape.
No, aggressive men that women like are those who know what they want in life and they go after it with everything they have and won't stop until they achieve their goal.
As we have already mentioned, women love a man who is confident and even a little cocky. Again, don't confuse this with being arrogant. The right attitude is actually a lot of confidence combined with humor. In other words - you are so confident that you can even laugh at yourself without feeling insecure.
Insecurity is the Biggest Turn Off
One of the biggest obstacles men face is insecurity. This is the one thing that will render you completely unattractive to any woman. Women can detect insecurity and neediness immediately and there's nothing that will turn her off quite as much as an insecure guy.
A man who doesn't feel comfortable in a certain situation or is uncomfortable with who he is, will come across as being insecure. He may try to appear confident, but it is quite clear that is only an act because he is trying to gain approval through what he says or how he behaves.
Some examples of insecure behavior include allowing others to make the decisions for you. So, if you are always waiting for her to decide what to do or where to go, she will think you are insecure. Women like it when men decide what is going to happen and then simply do it. If she wants to do something else, she will tell you, but don't always expect her to make the decisions.
Another way you come off as being insecure is if you are constantly arguing about everything. Even if you are right, it just makes you appear insecure that you have to argue with every little thing just to prove you are right.
The only way to overcome insecurity, is to accept the fact, that there will always be things that are out of your control and you can't do anything about it. You need to become used to stepping outside of your comfort zone.
You have to become the guy who does things that might not feel comfortable but help him to gradually become more confident and secure in his own body.
I don't completely agree w/ the author. The word "aggressive" can be misleading.
BE ASSERTIVE, not aggressive. There is a huge difference.
The author also forgot to mention courage, fearlessness, kindness, compassion, reliability, trustworthiness, decisiveness, honesty, diligence, sense of justice, ambitions, specialized knowledge and skills, status, cleanliness, optimal health, value to society, perseverance and emotional/self-mastery. Last but not least is a man's occupation. For example, a man who is a fighter pilot or American board-certified neurosurgeon will be irresistible to many very attractive young women and SYTs.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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