[GLHunter]

Originally Posted by chanyboy

Hence, before settling down to proper marriage, would it be better to talk first before committing?

The other formula is "I allocate $x dollars for your monthly use. Up to you how much to give back there" - would this not work?

I think it is a very good idea. When money is coming out from their own pocket (in this case the money belongs to them), they will be more prudent with the spending as they feel the pinch.