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Originally Posted by Earnestball
Bro WB,
If I may add - self assured, peace of mind, giving, not exploitative, making them feel they can trust you.
It's all in the mind and playing with their minds with enough sincerity. True power.
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Bro, tks for your post.
Yes, self-assuredness is more than just self-confidence. My two Nanjing women like to say 要很笃定，很冷静 or very self-assured and very calm, coolheaded and imperturbable, no matter what happens.
Peace of mind and tranquility are also vital. Yes, especially in life and death situations. That is when we can separate a real MAN from tens of thousands of little men/boys. Unlike in ordinary circumstances when a man may be able to fake it.
Don't forget to be ASSERTIVE, but not aggressive. Be dominant, not domineering. Be in control, not controlling. Big difference. Very big difference.
All of the above are results of a MAN's awesome emotional strength and self-mastery at the subconscious level.
Be fearless. Like a zen master.
Yes, in the last many yrs, I hv also alluded to the importance of generosity, empathy, compassion, kindness, loyalty, responsibility, reliability, and trustworthiness. A man's word is his bond.
I hv also stressed the importance of giving unconditionally. See my post on the highest form of love between a woman and a man.
Last not but not least, a MAN should think and behave like the prize from the first second he meets his dream girl until the last second he is with her.
If you have ALL the masculine character traits I have mentioned here and in my previous post, do you think you will have any competition in getting your dream girl? Unless she is a psychopathic gold digger.
Cheers!
Bro WB