[CuteDragon79]

Learning Process Part 1

Hi Everyone,

I’m a new member here. But actually I had been reading through the threads of 1600+ at least 3 times since end of 2018. I am still learning even at this point of time. I feel it’s time to share my experiences and stories here.

My 2nd marriage was already on the rocks (Both with SG ladies) when I chanced upon this thread. I had no idea what my life will be from that moment on after my divorce had been finalised. You guys already been chatting about why SG ladies are really bad at being wives, so I shall skip this. After reading this tread, one day, it just struck my mind to get a Vietnamese Wife based on the good and bad points which everyone had discussed and shared here.

I ever went to KTVs which have Vietnamese ladies (WL) for companionship. Yes, they are mostly only after $$$ and I figured it’s no point wasting time and money on them. Bro Hurricane is right: Go to Vietnam and find a decent Vietnamese gal! However as many bros had mentioned the difficulties of communication when being in Vietnam plus the fact that I have never been to Vietnam before.

In one of the older posts, I saw a suggestion to use VietnamCupid (Online Dating Website). I registered an account and asked the Vietnamese gals there if they are interested to continue to chat with me using “Zalo”. As the Vietnamese ladies are quite limited to TV, I chatted with them with the aid of “Say Hi” Translation App. I would say it is NOT easy to find a Vietnamese GF/Wife even by doing these.

After chatting with several ladies, I felt that the ladies living in the big cities like HCM/Hanoi are very similar as our SG girls in terms of behaviour and mindset. Of course some people might disagree with me and it depends on the different Vietnamese ladies we had encountered with. On my first trip to Vietnam, I flew from SG to Dong Hoi via HCM to meetup with one of the ladies “M”, a gym instructor age 33. I was in Dong Hoi for 5 days. We went for coffee, a couple of meals and a movie commuting mostly on her scooter. However, we could not progress further as she was still having emotional baggage. There were no intimacy involved.

On my second trip to Vietnam, I went to HCM to meetup with “N”, jobless (previously a WL) age 25. She was willing to accept my past (2 marriages etc). On that visit, I realised she was quite a spendthrift, e.g Getting me to treat her friends and relatives to a meal twice costing about 4 million each time. She even brought me to her village in Can Tho to see her parents and grand-parents etc to let them know of my presence. By the end of my 8 days trip, I had enough. I stopped contacting her after I got back to SG.

To be continued.....