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Originally Posted by atoll
I used to have the same mentality as you when i was a newbie chiongster - just accept the price the lady offer as negotiating may cause the mood to turn sour and mean a bad session. I think this is true only if you are lowballing her...ie offer a price below market rate. In this case, you aren't doing that and you are also letting her know you are not a carrothead.
Even if i negotiate that 1k off the agreed price, it doesn't mean i would not give her 7k at end of session. At least that 1k is now tips to her for her good service as compared to paying her an inflated rate for mediocre service. A FL previously asked why i bothered to negotiate price when i was going to pay her the original rate. I casually told her i gave her more because she deserved it, and not because she asked for it. She's been a regular meet up since then and never quoted me ever for our time together, leaving me to decide how much to "tip" her after each session.
It's all a game in this P2P world. So sometimes need to play psychological games with the ladies.
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totally agree with this.
1. if we just accept the inflated price / timing, soon the rest will insist on those terms. Spoils the market very fast. Mamasans are now testing the new market. If it works, yes those terms will be the new norm really fast and not just in Nana plaza.
2.I dont mind paying more, but i do want to get the kind of service that i pay for. Hate it when i'm being treated like a carrot. When they think you are carrot, they'll think you are a newbie and start giving you less of your money's worth in the room. rather pay her a good tip after good service.
3. true that negotiating may make the mood turn sour. which is why i would reject overpriced offers/terms outright, rather than negotiating it down to market rates. The chemisty wasnt there to begin with. Just look for another girl as there are plenty.