I do agree with you that it is rare, but is not uncommon, as it did happened to many other bros, including me too.
1.A beautiful Viet lady shared my table. Probably I was early & not many customers around. I welcomed her, had a conversation & found out she was an aspiring online dress designer in Vietnam. As she came from a village & market was small, she wanted to see the world to help her aspirations. We ended up with sparkling conversations, sharing bodily warmth as the air con was cold, unaware 4hrs had passed & drinks finished. She never left my table. I do not take advantage of others, & gave her $100 for her time with me.
2. Another viet lady was kinda forced upon me by her friends. Was told she was new & had not been invited to any table. She wore no make-up & simply dressed. I smiled & gave her a chance. She kept me companied till my drinks were finished 4 hrs later. The next days when I came, she had became an ang pai, & looked stunningly beautiful with make up & dress. She kept me company the whole night, ignoring even the guys from the next tables whom kept nudging for her to keep them company.
3. It was during covid era when pubs were opened. There were little patrons & ladies. A lady wanted to share my table. She was dressed & covered up to the hilt & I knew there would be no playability. But I smiled & invited her to do so. Found out thru conversations & beers that she had a work permit for work here, but the company closed down due to covid, & she could not go back to Vietnam as borders were closed. We spent the night keeping each other company, & were comfortable with each other, so comfortable that when our drinks finished, she walked out from the pub with me, & a hotel was nearby...
There are many more such incidents. This post is NOT to glorify myself. I am nothing special - i dress simply, no rolex watch, just like any other bro out on a nite for drinks, music & company. Perhaps it is just chemistry, or just that I always treat the ladies as my equal & would not take advantage of them or make them feel uncomfortable.
Cheers, & have fun.
