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Originally Posted by leakypipes
Only now that I am middle-aged, that this thread begins to make more sense.
I have had occasional successes in my 30s, but my hit rate in the last two years went up considerably - despite COVID.
What changed? Well, I went through some personal shit, but came out of it learning to care less what other people think about me. And focussed on improving myself. I have always been confident, but I also had a deeply insecure side and always look for validation from others.
Now, the only validation I want is from myself. And I am not interested in impressing others, least of all another woman, no matter how attractive they are.
Because based on the last two years alone, I am confident that if I want you, I will get you.
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Bro, tks for your post and affirmation.
Congrats on your recent success! The difference is your positive frame. It's magical.
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Originally Posted by EtherC
Great to hear that, the needy vibe has been cleansed. Women can sense if a man is needy/ desperate. Being relaxed, fun, confident and at ease is very attractive!
Having $ is just a multiplier, a man can be rich but still be needy. And that’s when he ends up attracting gold diggers.
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Bro, tks for your post.
A needy and insecure king will be a loser with the most attractive girls. Yeah, having lots of money will only attract a horde of gold diggers. Sad but true. Money could be a curse.
Most girls are satisfied with meeting basic financial goals, and beyond that, they look for a man's masculine character traits, emotional mastery, physical fitness, intelligence, kindness, trustworthiness, and social value. Subconsciously as it's in the genes.
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Originally Posted by leakypipes
Very true. Frankly, i feel my 30s success is all because of material. I had $ to spare. Ok la i still got $ to spare but what's the point?
Nowadays, i almost feel like I'm living the fantasy i had in my 20s and 30s - and you're right, removing the needy vibe is vital! Must maintain that power dynamic. A desperate man will always grasp at straws. A confident man chooses his own path in all things.
And to think, it took COVID to help me find that confidence. It was always there - i just didn't believe in myself.
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Bro, tks.
A man doesn't need anything outside of himself to feel relaxed, confident, secure, contented, and validated.
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Originally Posted by BroTrustMyWords
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Originally Posted by Ratbert
Yup that was good
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Originally Posted by merseyback
Agreed. Excellent share by bro warbird!  |
Thanks so much, bros.
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Good evening to all samsters,
Cheers!
Bro WB