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Originally Posted by SwordArt
Do you know the cause of the change?
Have you spoken with her about the differences pre and post marriage?
Do you still love her?
Have you tried spicing things up?
Do both of you still go on date, have a long chat over dinner, communicating about everything in life?
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I am not the TS. I am divorced.
Before my divorce, I did all these that you talked about.
My ex-wife told me two things.
1. Our roles have changed from a couple to parents.
2. I cannot be so self-centred that everything is about me and my dick.
I decided to get divorced, even though it would get me much poorer.
I still have a sexless life and am still a father, but at least I don't have to share a bed with a woman that will not touch me anymore. Her focus changed to our children and, eventually, her lover outside. Someone that is more fun and does not nag at her for spending too much.