Re: Should tell gf about FL past?
Thank you bros for your advice. I am leaning more towards not telling her since it is the past and I know I am clean (Did urine and blood test recently but did not test for HPV since no warts). I also realised you guys are right that I would not want to know about my partner's past. Though she is probably a virgin in the current case.
I think even if she accepts me for my past, she would be rightly suspicious about what I do in the future since I have done it before. Probably better to keep Pandora's box closed.
I can't say I have ex-gf because eventually she will ask more about it or if it comes up in conversation with my other friends then hong gan liao. All my friends think I am virgin since I didn't tell anybody about FL so got nobody to cover for me.
I am only worried about HPV since I read that it can cause cancer for women. I have a friend who got the vaccine even though don't have partner just to be safe so maybe I can just bring it up without too much suspicion.
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