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Originally Posted by I Love Boobs
As a man who has been divorced once, sometimes I wonder if I should even try to get a girl in a relationship to marry again…..
BTW, ex-wife had cheated on me even before we were married.
This pre-dates my FL adventures….
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I am lucky. I am now in a stable relationship though it is long distance. My girl was from nightlife, luckily she was very determined to transition back into normal life and has quite successfully done so.
I want to marry her, mainly to give her the legal status as a wife and also to signal my commitment to the relationship but since we can never have children so the marriage cert is, in a way more symbolic than anything else. There are other ways to show commitment - buying property together, being part of her circle of friends and being invited to family celebrations by her relatives.
I think that it would be unfair to let my current partner bear the sins of my previous partner(s). It would be tragic to hold back commitment, just because of the emotional scars from our previous relationships.
After attending enough funerals, I learnt that life is indeed short. Do what makes you happy, bro. All the best.