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Originally Posted by Masko
I am 50 yrs Singaporean widower for 7 yrs, connected with PH FDW who started working since oct 2023.
I liked her and in love now ,want to go for long term is this possible or correct?
She need financial help from me , to do some course $250 per month in Singapore for career change, also helping for to buy house in her home town and monthly expenses around 500 to 600.
After her contract finish possible to marry her? She have two kids 19 hrs & 14 yrs.
I was alone for several years and now getting into this relationship.
Experts suggestions are welcome how to move on for the retirement life.
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Hi bro,
I had PH and Indon maids relationship before. From the scenario that you mentioned to me, it is a big NO NO to go into the arrangement you hope for.
They are here to earn an income for their family. And your girl already have 2 kids at the age where they need money for their education, living expense, father died, grandmother sick, typhoon wiped out their crops, family cow sick need to see vet blah blah blah....u get the drift?
U will be a ever ready source of ATM for her and her extended family at an age where u really need to preserve your financial bullets as health and medical expense climb.
Why do you want to get into this shit?