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Originally Posted by technofreak
Good for u bro...At least ur wife saw the light at the end of the tunnel. For me, I'm still in the process of changing her mindset. Wanna brainwash her into thinking that her family is a burden to ours (which in fact is!!). All her brothers are good-for-nothings!! Alcoholics, gamblers n wife-beaters etc...
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Bro technofreak, you can continue brainwashing your gf but its really need herself to notice what is wrong with her family. Anyway don'y give up brainwashing her.. it will be good for everyone. Bro SingViet is a good example
From the start, I already brainwash my bx that I am a salaried worker and living in Sillypore is high cost. I cannot afford to give her monthly allowance. She readily accept it and never ask for money from me. Even if her friends need money and tell her to ask me for money to help them, she tell them straight in the face that I got no money.
Lucky for me that I don't need to brainwash her to tell her that her family is a burden to her... she tells me that instead. She now move out and stayed alone in a rented room. She do not want her family and friends to bother her too much (financially). But she still care alot for her mum. She is working in small shop selling clothes and earn little. Her brother-in-law and friends who stayed with her had been asking her to work in massage parlour so that she can earn more money to help out the household. She is strong and not influence by them. Sometimes she tells me that she cares alot for everyone in the house but she do not feel that they return the favour but still take advantage of her.. she is tired.
Other than the brother-in-law (jobless) and friends, her brothers and sisters are alright and are not lazy type and they do have a job. I do not know if it is because of the religion (Catholic) they are in.
I am just quoting example that there are still good VN gals.... even in JC.
Bros who falls for VN gal in JC.... you have to be patient and put in time to observe 1st before plunging in.
With the help of bro Sha_Gua75 and SingViet at the initial stage, and concern shown by bro chanyboy, I am able to hold back my feeling to observe and test the situation. I am happy with the result so far.... thanks
