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Originally Posted by X-men
thanks for all the advise, however, my ger's hse is quite far fro city bout 1 hr ride. Frankly speaking,i dunno whether i pity n love her more beco i saw wat enviroment she grow up or tat is a trick to make me fall deeper. Frens around me tot i kena kong-tao by her beco with my income,(i also consider above average looking lah) i can easily get a local ger n Y i still insist to stick with her..$ got con still won hurt tat much cos can earn back but if she con my feeling then i really dunno wat to do..maybe juz take a gamble this time,put her on a test n dun be soft0hearted anymore....Anyway thks to all bros who share their woes n listen to me..
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bro, i wish to offer some pointers based on my experience in vietnam. Firstly, LOOKS don't work on vietnamese gals looking out for foreigner guys. Only Singaporean gals think that LOOKs are damm important. Vietnamese gals go for foreigner man that are sincere, loving and have $$$. Some bros may claim that they do not have $$ but yet their gal love them. But to a large extend, if you have a car and a proper job that give you an income that you can cheong, you are considered financially stable or much better than common vietnamese man in vietnam. Bros based in vietnam can easily tell you that as long as you look normal and have a bit of spare cash, you can easily hook up a pretty and sexy vietnamese lady. Vietnamese also yearn to stay abroad, which they consider easier to make money and more chances to get rich. As for the houses they stay, it is for sure they are much worse off than Singapore, but to be able to own a house in TP. HCM, they are not too bad too.
Vietnamese gals are damm good with sweet butterfly words, telling you how they love you etc. take those words as pinch of salt. They tell all eligible foreigner guys the same thing. If you feel that they bring you to see their parents and thus u are special.. then you are wrong. Its to show off to their parents and relatives on how capable they are to hook a foreigner guy. And sex with you doesn't make u special too as they use sex to earn a living.
Not to sound negative, but majority of normal vietnamese ladies are like that. too many singaporean man had fallen victim to their tricks. But of course, there are a small minority of normal gals that are good.
