[exbiker]

How about you yourself go for counselling bro? Obviously the problem isn’t with you but you are bearing the brunt of it.

Counselling would help you cope with the situation at home?

Had a close fwb with whom we had mutual feelings for but she decided to ghost me and go back to her emotionally abusing and cheating husband. This happened all of a sudden so it left me feeling devastated. After going to counselling and hearing from another angle, it helped to manage better as there are things I didn’t notice from my pov. Because there are really gems out there who love and respects and treats their husband like royalty, and despite the shit and disrespect the husband throws at her, at the end of the day she still love him unconditionally.

Sorry I went off topic a little there but it’s sth that’s been bugging me. And as irrational it may sound to me at first, counselling helped me see some angles on why she did it but importantly, taking care of ourselves is what we can control. Can’t control those who decide to mistreat us.