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Originally Posted by alea
My wife and I are married for 5 years. I consider our sex life average - I do the initiating most of the time and sometimes I get rejected. Last week, while I was preparing to have a good time with her in bed, I asked her if she has any urge for sex. She says that actually women can do without sex, and that the main reason she has sex is just because I want to. On hearing her reply, I was a bit shocked and saddened. I'm still very confused and to a certain extent, hurt. Since that day, we did not have any more sex. My sexual urge is up to the brim liao, but I really don't wish to have sex with her when she's just going through motion.
Anyone here has any advice? Is this normal in a marriage? How to enable a wife to have a higher sex drive? I admit I'm totally lost on this. I really appreciate all advice. Thanks.
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Dear Alea,
You are not alone, i guess many men in Singapore are victims of this kind of conspiracy... If your wife still talks to you or cooks dinner for you and listen to you like a good friend, its already not bad. My role has been reduced to simply a phone banking service... each time when my wife needs money, just SMS me to transfer money to her bank account. She does not even sleep in the same room with me, and prefers to sleep with the kids in their room.
To most Singaporean, women, it seems that after having kids, sex is no longer part of life and therefore the husband's role will definitely be reduced. Even when a bunch of married women who have kids gathers to talk about anything.. if someone in the group start the girlie talk and mention something about sex, that person will be branded as a weirdo by the others...
So for brudders who are still not married and may be marrying a singapore girl soon, good luck to you.