hmm before marriage you should have find out already, now no use cry over spill milk,
threaten is no use, tis thing needs willingly one both hands to clap ..
if you want sex, your wife dun give cannot force also, since there is law on marital rape, last time rape charges cannot be applied to husband but i read
1-2 yrs back law changed ... marital rape applies to husband also.
solution: you got to find commercial sex or get a mistress or castrate your didi or self fire.
divorce: 100% you lose out, need to split property and pay alimony .. there
is no way out, i promise you, they already optimise fine tune their system for this ... there is No Loophole.