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Originally Posted by Honey Boon

ya, I have $$ but why should I pay for you relatives.... only the girl make me "song", you people never. So why should I? This is international norm.

I agree wholeheartedly

Originally Posted by X_plorer

I've paid for her Brother's Wedding, and Even months later, her Brother's Hospital for giving birth, her sister's son education for two years already, and lot & lots more things which my initial monthly send back was not only $200 per month but double, whereas at that point of time, she is not pregnant yet.

And very few months, confirm got something would happens. Then the money from my pocket would be gone. 1 person income for dunno how many people's mouth.

I also paid for her mum's gambling debts, her father's hospital expenses, her father's funeral expenses etc. And that was even before we got married...

U do have my empathy...Every few months of savings would be gone in an instant when "something" crops up...

Originally Posted by papillon30

In my opinion, you should give to your MIL and FIL only. Token amount like
S$100 each as a "thank-u' for having brought up your wife. The rest can F.O.
Tell your wife that MIL and FIL are the responsibilities of the bros-in-law & their wives.

That should be the way mah...Their own sons should bear the responsibility, not foreign sons-in-law like us tio bo? My baxa's 3 bros all f..king "chia liao bi"...