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Old 16-06-2008, 01:23 PM
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THISISSPARTA!!! deserves a Tiger! - He's a Good Guy
Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

Hi Everyone,

I am very new here. Went "googling" and was directed to this forum. I have yet to read this thread from start to finish. Decided to register and post here as i am facing some sort of problem. Maybe some Bros here can advice. Actually I know and understand the sticky situation I am in but I have no 1 to turn to and this is just a way for me to vent. I hope all that read will not persecute me. Thanks.

I got to know this vietnamese gal around 3 weeks ago while i went entertaining clients in kabuki. Only my 2nd time there. What followed was some constant exchange of sms and calls. I have to say, I have fallen hook, line and sinker for this gal's "charms". Evil she may be but stupid, confirm I am.

She started with "let's be frens, dun talk about money", and I thought, wah, I so fortunate or I so "yan dao". Needless to say, now i realise I am the stupidest person in SG. Soon, I was feeling down at the thought of her going to work as I know what these gals "Do" while working. So we had a quarrel as she did not really understand my sms. So we had a talk and she gave me the sob story about needing money for family. So i asked her how much she needed. I was willing to fork out around 1 - 2K just so she can stop work for the remaining 2 weeks. She say she needed 3K. Wah liao. I high liao, so i promised her that. But she had to stop work. She say ok. But come Monday, she say she want to go work. Then quarrel again. She say if she stop work then i dun give her money then how? I told her the money would be ready in a week's time. Then she replied "when u have money then i stop work" WAH. This was the signal that i should have recieved loud & clear for me to faster run away liao lor. But... hook, line & sinker lah.

So, I passed her 1.5K and told her the balance will be given to her before she leaves SG. And she stopped work. Here comes the best part: I told her she could move in with me! Stupid? Very.

Fast forward, she's been staying at my place for 1 week plus already. She will be leaving this friday. I only "up" her once nia. gong gong...

From her actions, I can tell that she's just with me for the money but I don't know why I just dun tell her to F off. She treats me hot & cold.

Anyway, money can be earned back (or paid back with 0% interest within 6months), but being "played" I can't quite accept. I am quite worried that some things in my house may go missing. But i doubt that will happen.

The moral of this story is: "THISISSPARTA!!! IS STUPID!!! Maybe I should have registered "IAMSTUPID!!! better.


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