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Originally Posted by chinacity
its a good feeling to fall in love, and better when the one you love has feelings for you too
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Hi Bro,
I read your postings with several mentioning of this gal from HFJ that you hook up with. It seems you are highly motivated by the relationship; love is in the air thingy. While I am in no position to pass judgement or stereotyped your gal, I urge you to step out of this "comfort zone" and review things that are being said and done, including your own. If something seems half a chance doubtful or doesn't "tally", then until this doubts are cleared you need to stop commiting deeper into it.
In this our crazy world, sometimes we can't even trust our own siblings, let alone a gal that has never spend a reasonable amount of times living and interacting with you, I assumed. Seeing her at the joints or a few interesting dates with her does not effectively place you in a good position to demand your emotional commitment.
Unless you deem yourself to be the better "player" and intending to take her for a ride only, the toll we pay and the risks we take to be involved with a working gal is very high. If she is sincere with you, we will be expecting to see her making proven effort to lessen these toll and risks, voluntarily. If love can make you do crazy things, so will it to her.
Take care mate.