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Originally Posted by shanshen
sharing my own definition on what is term "carrot head"
to me, as long as you are happy and feel contented with the money spent on a lady or a group of ladies, you have achieved what you have in mind that day. That day, your feeling is good and you feel good because of the quality time you had from the company these ladies. Therefore this to me is not "carrot head" as his objective had been achieved and the good feeling he had.
However, if you date a girl out for the first time or subsequent time and she brought her kakis along and you spend a big $ for the dinner and drinks. After that, leave you along and tries to evade your calls, than I say that particular day, you have been made a "carrot head"
It all depends on situation and circumtances...to me, money worth spending when you get the good treatment in return. n its always feel good or the feelings is good when u are with someone u love...and it gets better when that feeling is being recipocrate.
imagine a sweet youg gal clinging to your arms and always feeding you when you eat...always hugging you whenever she feels happy with your words.. who wouldnt feel good..or melts in her hands... haha...how many will zap me for this?
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Precisely my point, agree there is no free lunch in tis world and definitely u must spend for ur enjoyment...BUT the main thing is how much is consider justifyable?
Some girl may make u feel good in the least effort, time n money spent while there are others tat purposely go all out to make u waste the most time, effort and money at the end of it all, some u would have tasted their pussy but some u cant even get smell their pussy.
Its very common even in our daily life, let says 2 customers walks in buying the same product, one is normal bargains and buys the product, then the other walks in with rolex watch head to toe all branded, salesguy manager says wah tis guy loaded "kar kar tai!" quotes 3 or 4 times higher and still he buys thinking nvm as long i happy and i pay high price i get good product/service...tats carrot
girl this amt company you or even lesser if she likes u, another guys comes in wants her, spends 3 or 4 times higher for her company, she drools wah tis one can chop chop, plays harder to get, guy think nvm next time i pay lagi more maybe she spend more time with me and thats how it skyrockets...
i have encountered many girls even after spending/hanging $200~$500 per night and the more u spend the more they comes back asking for much more, esp even more when ur high/drunk, some even take the liberty to dictates the amt to spend on them, u ask for 2 LDs they went ahead buy 4 or 5 LDs sometimes 1 whole row of LDs, best part is end of the night when try to bring her back, she will play hard to get cus then u will come back try harder, tats when u pay more n more, even when eventually u managed to get her u might have spend quite a bomb
then on another occasion elsewhere, jus 1 or 2 LDs or $20~$50 flower, the girl willing to spend whole night accompany you and go bed with you
both also company both also contentment with money spend but which one is more justify which one is trying to carrot?
for me i will try 1 to 3 times to test water, girl come back for more without me telling her, dictating where, to go wat to eat, what to buy, dun pick up ur calls when u call...is trying to carrot you, dun waste time n money change next target...but if u Have money and dun mind spending more time n money to get her whereas u might save time n money over another girl, then by all means carry on...its ur own money n time anyway
