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Originally Posted by hamlinlau
EGO becomes the real game when one reaches a high social status.
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Aiya! You really hit the other point I was trying to make...
See, I got no social status. I realise my limitations and don't want to get myself into trouble over a useless thing like ego. I say "useless" because to people like me, no money and no social status, other things must take priority. I cannot afford to have lofty ambitions like getting a singer to sleep with me despite my fugly looks and lack of spending power, just to prove that I can make it. I can only afford to have small goals like shooting my soldiers into a willing woman's mouth or pussy for small sums of money.
At the same time, I would like to urge all the other people like me out there who have no social status and money. Don't try to be like those HFJ regulars go there spend money try to hook PRC. We all still young and poor, some things like "ego game" we cannot afford to play. Right now, our priority should be to earn money, take care of the people closest to you, don't give mother father any problem, make headway in career, etc. Don't rack up financial debts just to impress some PRC who hasn't done anything for you. It's OK for people to think you are poor, just don't let them think you are an idiot.
What other people think is an accomplishment does not have to be your idea of an accomplishment. You
don't have to be impressed. (Although sometimes to eng siew, you might have to
act impressed.) There's no shame in not being a Casanova. But there is shame in spending time and money to impress PRC singers when the people closer to you need and deserve it more. Don't let your ego ruin your life.