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Originally Posted by zhu star
U must be a newbie, what u are experiencing is the start of a turmoil and big headache relationship problem with them. In their vocabulary, there is no such word as lend, they only have 'take'. Once you start to give in the first time, it will become a habit for them to ask and they will take for granted that you must give. The amt will start from 100bucks and as time goes on ballooning it to thousands. If you don give they will lose their temper and show their true colour. Dont ask me how I know!
I am not saying that all of them are suckers like the PRC, unforunately alot of them are force into this situation. It is extremely rare to find one that is really concern about you without talking about money.
Think many many times before you part with your hard earned cash especially with bad times coming round the corner
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Totally agree with Bro zhu star
This does not onli apply to Viet. U gotta understand how and where u know your gal. At such a place like Mask51, better drop your heart at door for bouncer to safekeep 1st. Its always abt $$$, never forget that.
So if u feel u r cash rich, juz wanna donate to the poor gal, by all means go ahead. If u r a poor 9 - 5 worker like most of us, pls save your money. Its not worth it. I dont even try to go out with them (except for paid sex, bonk and forget). btw, there is no such thing as FOC like some people say. U juz pay it in other forms.....