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Originally Posted by hjy_19

WAT TO DO EVERYWHERE NEED $ $ $
Should i still continue rom with her?

Now you know practically every Vietnamese have monetary problems...

I suggest u adopt a wait-n-see attitude...

Originally Posted by vlover

like bro jack say, do as you deem right.. mayb after marriage, you are able to convince with your love and sincerity that her vietnam family is not everything afterall.. In future, you and your baby will be her everything? I learnt this after reading thru this thread with advices from the seniors... so marry liao chop chop shoot in.. and have beby.

I second your opinion...That's what I did. Now everything revolves around junior liaoz...

Originally Posted by casannova03

an giang?? nostalgic feeling!!! haha cos my wife is from there too....but still one an giang is damn damn big....which part of an giang you went to?? any small crossing of river on the wooden boats??

Hey my baxa's from there too...Maybe we can go back together next time. I've yet to go AG. Haha.

Originally Posted by casannova03

of course, you have to take into account the after marriage expenses...like i always say and bro singviet also adviced...talk to her about her expectations after marriage.. let her know how much you earn, what expenses you have here in SG and tell her you cannot provide for her whole family...they have to earn their keep! but you dun mind sending back money once in a while but strictly to her parents for household expenses...things like new motor, hi-fi, are out of question.....

That's what I do now...Remitting some $$ once in a while...Luxuries are out of the question!!

Originally Posted by Darkstorm

Hi guys, when a Viet girl agrees to bring you to her house during Chinese New Year, does it mean anything?

A Viet guy told me it doesn't mean anything. Any views?

Do NOT go to her house during TET...Unless you wanna be a SANTA CLAUS...^_^