Although "reality is in the mind of the beholder," I hv been rejected by FLs twice in my life time. This rejections r real, not imaginary, IMHO.
The first rejection happened a long time ago when I was in my early 20s. My good fren n I were so stunned by the beauty of this tall 18-yr-old SYT in New Peitou, Taiwan, that we literally scrambled n scuffled for the right to her pussy!!
She ran away n refused to come back, even though I begged the mamasan n offered to triple the damage.
The second rejection occurred last yr. I met this high-priced gal but was disappointed w/ her looks n figure (price exceeded value a lot). My body language was probably very negative n she made an excuse n left. I guess subconsciously I was hoping that she would leave. I didn't even hv to pay Taxi fare.
Have I been treated badly by FLs before? Yes!! Their FRs were all very positive!! Must be the Rashomon effect, haha. I'll cite two examples.
1) A local gal from an OKT. She was too skinny n was sick w/ flu! My body language turned negative immediately n reflexively. I should hv rejected her but paiseh lah. She sensed my negative vibes n responded in kind, haha.
2) A PRC student. She was too short n legs too big lah. Same negative action n reaction. Very bad experience, haha.
Now I'll reject a FL if I'm not satisfied w/ her looks n figure, even if she has entered the rm. I hv learnt to be polite n gracious n will offer to pay her taxi fare.
Just my 2 cents.
Thx for reading.