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Old 10-01-2009, 05:38 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by SingViet View Post
had a busy morning, turned on this forum and got this:

Just a simple rough translation:

Hi em. Have you eaten? I missed you a lot. I am with a friend now. My friend is now very sad over a man. I listen to my friend and i am sad too. But thank god, we two are honestly in love '

Hmmm.. sounds tricky Bro
yes indeed. i don't know whether should i trust her with the explaination she gave me. she's not a wl. just a normal countryside girl who is working in the city with a decent job. i've been with her for 6 mths now and i've seen her work place, all her family members, her home, her hometown etc. from what i observed, i think i'm in a situation whereby i have to think whether should i take the risk to trust her this once and risk myself getting cheated or i should just stop everything. when i say observe, i did observe her in a clear minded state.

i'm at quite a loss now struggling to come to a decision. if i let go and in the end she isn't lying, i'll regret it for life. if i don't and get cheated in the end, i'll feel damn stupid to fall into the trap after reading all the experiences from fellow bros here. she's supposed to come over in march to see my family but right now i really don't know what to do.

anyway, is there anywhere in sg that i can take up courses for vn language? preferrably a course that is with flexible timing to suit my working schedule. and how come my posts have to go through a mod before it is shown? anyway to overcome that? lol.

sincerely thanks to bros who posted here and helped out fellow bros to gain more experience on vn relationships before heading on blindly. esp bro singviet for the valuable advise you gave me earlier on.