well, my case is slightly different as mine is "extra"... can live with or without.... so I have the slight upper hand to force her to make this decision ... she weights the pros and cons. But of course, it took her quite a while to make this decision .... as my monthly allowance is fixed based on my ability, ... if she wants her family more, then she will have less to spend on herself...
Bro Singviet, remember you have helped me to "calculate" what is the basic needs for a single lady to spend in her home town. Based on that, it has worked well for me and her .... now she only give her mother a bit every month.
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Originally Posted by SingViet
Bro, u still have to learn a lot about vietnamese as spouse leh u ask yr gal to choose between u and her family, she will ask u to FXXK OFF. she will surely choose her family. How i know this? from real life experience... hahahha... BIG MISTAKE... marriage almost ended but thank god, i managed to save it.  |