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Originally Posted by snipeshot08
Many many many (countless in fact) trying to sound experienced in cheonging have preached the same sentence you have just said, nothing wrong in fact I would agree perfectly right 
But most do not know the highest level of cheonging is NOT THIS RULE, actually it is also perfectly alright to bring your heart out along, but most important is to bring your BRAIN along as well...
How many times in our lives have we been able to experienced the lure, the ecstasy, the unbearable feeling of truly liking or in love wif someone, the feeling of hurt, the feeling of missing somebody........once you get married it becomes different, even largi different once you have children.... >_<
This is why countless of us wander around in such pubs & ktvs, to reminisce about our youth romances and maybe get some "paid" romances, difficult to explain but investing feelings in is not wrong, its only wrong if we let it take over us completely thus destroying our lives or marriages .......however again same as what you have preached, THIS IS VERY EASY TO SAY BUT DIFFICULT TO PUT INTO PRACTICE 
And those whom are wondering, NO NO I am also not capable of the highest level yet even tho I have cheong for many many years already  , its just that fortunately I am deeply in love with my wifey so investing in such external paid romances (never did bother whether the other receipient party is true or not  ) have never been able to sidetrack me..... ^_^
Just my pathetic 2 cents worth......
Cheerios.....SS08 ^_^
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Yes totally agree with you .
That is why the band of brotherhood is important .
Our cheong brothers are always there to ensure "wake your idea" among us if we see anyone of us going sidetrack ...
I must say i was once almost became the "lost sheep" if not for my brothers who preach the famous line to me.....