Re: All Vietnam Related TCSS / Info / Gatherings / Help Thread
Hi KT, have you ever wonder about the day when your past catches up with you and your gf knows the truth? I had followed your story and I believed that she could have eyes around. Because of her past, she might know but just chose to suffer in silence. Seldom will any women share the guy she truely loves with any of her counterparts. They are a jealous lot. When you had fun, had you ever think in her shoes? What if she does the same to you? What goes around might come around. Maybe, all it needs is someone to whistle blow to her to confirm everything and her trust in you might be lost forever. Trust is very fragile. Difficult to accumulate but easy to break. Previoulsy, you had been caught. Unless she knows about your ECA here, otherwise is it worth throwing away the years of r/s with her?
I used to have a very steady gf whom I wanted to marry. However, due to frequent assignments overseas, the marriage was on hold. Hence, I did fool around like you. 1 day, on that very day, she knew of the flings that I had behind her back, all the lies that I had told her, just everything. My image was shattered. She left me with a broken heart. Till this day, I still regretted my stupidity. I had learned my painful lesson.
Ask yourself, is it worth it? Have fun now or someone who can go through thick and thin with you for the future? I'm assuming certain factors becuase we had not met before. Maybe I'm mistaken otherwise I do hope you will spend some time pondering. Never wish to see another samster following down my path.
No malice intended.
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