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Originally Posted by dodgyboi69
Hi all..
I frequent HCM. I go there almost every month. Not to cheong but just to chill
relax and unwind from work. I just love and adore HCM. it's so laid back! Few months back, I met a girl at the bar that I frequent. It's a clean joint. I know almost everyone there. She's a SYT. We went out quite a bit on my following visits to HCM and always keep in contact via SMS or emails. She never asks me for money or anything. I will only pay for her meals when I asked her out. And at times, she would pay for mine! She looks like a good wife material. I've already to her of my intentions of making her my gf but she said that it's not a good time. She said that she need to settle some of her family problems. And she's afraid that she go no time for me. I understand and take things slowly. I feel that she is very wary of me. Maybe she thinks that all I want is sex or want her to be my sexcapade everytime I come to hcm. Now, we're starting to communicate better. She's starting to open up and I'm starting to understand her further. The thing is that I don't really know if she's a good girl or she's just buttering me up and just waiting to go for the kll and suck all my money as what my friends would say. I need some help and advise here, my Viet bros. Maybe some wise words from Bro Singviet and from the Legendary Bro Hurricane.
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Wow...I din know when I became a legend...
Bro hottip had nicely written the part on WL in Sin which I have nothing more to add...written enough on those which I got bored...
I had written before that there are very nice decent gal in HCM...who are definitely wifey material...things that local Sin gal will never do anymore...but Vn gal still does them to their spouse and bf...example Bro SingViet wife cleaning him up during his illness...peeling off prawn shell and feeding you to your fill before they start eating...best you can experience them yourself...
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Originally Posted by dodgyboi69
Misunderstanding is inevitable. We even had this arguement about me trying to understand her. I understand that family is the most impt thing but the thing that I don understand is that why is she so affected with the small small things like brother lost handphone or sister not doin well in school?
At times I feel that she is playing me lor cos getting affected by these things are quite absurd to me. Maybe it's in their culture..
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hahaha...welcome to the TV lovers club...this is where Sin men will never understand the Vn culture...here Vn gals are the one to bring the money back for family...yes...not the Vn men...this can be hard to accept...but this shows how filial the gals can be to their parents...