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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by dodgyboi69 View Post
Hi guys..

I just got back from hcm a couple of days back.. It was a bittersweet trip.. I broke off with my vn girl.. Found out that her first love is back into her life! She likes both of us and I think she's weighing both of us.. It's painful cos she's a nice girl and all.. I noticed that she acted kind of strangely with me.. Not like when I was there on my last trip.. I just shrug it off.. Her friends then informed me about the first love after I kept asking them bout her.. I lost it man! I left my ego back in sg but it landed! They told me that she also like me but when I asked who she like more, all of them said she likes the first love more! They told me that in vn, all first love overwrites everything! WTF!!! so I confronted her! She denied! She then said that we should be friends instead cos it was too fast between us! And she wants to start slow and she like me! I told her NO! cos it's too painful! She left and cried! Now I feel like shit! Am I doin the right thing? Or should j just battle it out with the first love and may the best man win? And what's up with the first love thingy?
you should be glad that she left you now n not after marrying you. first love thingy is not copyright of viet hor, its for most asians. which lady will not miss the first man that made love to her?