Good morning!
A guru has written that to be a real MAN, one must be completely fearless of death n be completely fearless of the pain n sufferings leading to death. This is the prerequisite.
He is absolutely right. The most famous samurai Miyamoto Musashi, who was undefeated in over 60 duels, attributed his success n survival to the resolute acceptance of death. He would hv been dead long ago if he had habored the slightest fear or doubts abt his ability to defeat his opponents.
In all human endeavors, we ensure our best chances n greatest probabilities of success n survival if we r completely detached to the outcome.
Most of us think n behave in the context of life n living n therefore death n pain leading to death become fearsome n terrifying. But life is ephemeral n we should think n behave in the context of death which is ineluctable. Every minute of living thus becomes a blessing, a gift, a joy...
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Watch Her Lower Lip
The next body language cue I want you to pay attention to is her lower lip. When a woman wants to kiss you or be kissed by you her lower lip will start to protrude more so than usual. Now once again you need to calibrate this at the beginning of the date and compare it to the end of the date. I’m very well trained in “kinesic interview and interrogation techniques” which is basically the art and science of observing and decoding body language and one of the very first things they teach you is…
Establish a Baseline
Establish a baseline means that in order for you to interpret body language properly you must first have something to compare it to. The beginning of your date or meeting is the absolute best time to establish your baseline so that you can determine when and how her non verbal cues change… what’s the first step to establishing a baseline? You probably already guessed it didn’t you…
PAY ATTENTION!
By the way another side effect of all this paying attention is that the woman really feels that you are interested in her… and you are. In a very real sense you are getting to know her far better than most men ever do or will and you’re doing it very quickly.
Self Touching
When She Strokes Her Neck
Another really great cue that she wants to get physical with you is when she starts caressing and touching her neck. Especially right around the side of the Adams apple, along the sterno-cleido-mastoid muscle and up behind the ear. If she consistently strokes or massages any of those areas as she is talking or looking at you it’s generally a sign that she very interested in getting closer.
When She Touches You!
Pay attention to when she starts touching you! This is a response you often get when you start using a lot of DD's cocky-funny approaches. Your women will like to smack you in that mocking “Oh you brat! I can’t believe you just said that!”…type of way. 9
When she does this it’s a definite sign she is into you. The same thing goes for when a woman consistently shows you her palms or talks with her hands. There is almost always some sort of light touching involved here. With women almost no touch is accidental.
The best way to make use of this cue is to simply do it back to her exactly the same way when you are speaking to her… not at the same time! It’s called gesture hijacking and can utterly super charge the level of rapport and connection between the both of you when you use this properly.
The last couple things I want you to be aware of are head tilts and preening gestures. Now what do I mean by preening gestures? A Preening Gesture is anything she does that is an effort to improve, modify or call attention to her appearance. Often she will touch her hair; her face, perhaps fiddle with her make up, put on lipstick etc… the most reliable one is touching her hair.
Head Tilts
A Million Years of Evolution Can’t Be Wrong!
Now head tilts are very good indicators of subservience both in the wild and in human cultures. You can also use a head tilt yourself to appear less threatening if she seems a bit nervous, use a slight tilt of your head to the right or left, smile, make eye contact and just talk to her. If she is constantly tilting her head and perhaps gazing downward as she does so then she’s probably communicating that she’s willing to follow your lead… in other words… she likes you.
The final concept I want you to get is this. No single trait by itself means anything! Some are really good indicators of attraction interest or arousal; but all of them on their own indicate nothing other than the physical gestures that they are.
However, we do have this concept in kinesics that I’d like you to be familiar with -- the concept of “clusters.” Anytime these traits show up in multiples they become exceedingly reliable indicators of what’s going on inside her mind.
For example…
As you’re paying attention you notice she has very large pupils, she looks at you with her head tilted and her hand is resting lightly on your arm or she accidentally brushes your arm or leg as she’s talking. Analysis – High Probability that she is into you!
Or
She gazes up at you while you’re speaking, her head is tilted and she is lightly stroking the side of her neck and she momentarily lowers her eyes, gazes downward and then back up to look at you. Analysis – High Probability That She Is Into You!
This many traits or cues appearing at one time are called a “cluster” and it’s a pretty sure indicator that she’s attracted and very interested in you.
By the way if she talks a lot… almost babbling, it indicates she’s usually pretty excited or nervous. Factor this in and combine this with the other traits and your more than likely in for a good night.
There are a myriad other courtship type body language cues you can learn but the above cues are the ones I see most when it comes to closing the deal and deciding to go for the first kiss and subsequent seduction… Savvy?
I recommend you pick up some good books on body language and get really good at seeing the cues and identifying clusters… it’s a skill that will pay for itself time and time again not just in the sexual arena but also in your personal and professional life. Well that’s enough about how to tell if she’s interested and turned on by you.
Now its time to delve into the real magic.