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Good morning!
According to many gurus, ur success w/ women is a function of ur rapport w/ them. Approaching, meeting, dating n seducing them...depends largely on deepening ur rapport. The deeper the rapport, the better n stronger the RS. The final aim is to KC them n give them COS. Deepening rapport will greatly facilitate these goals.
A few days ago, I received an email from a guru on a quick tip to deepen rapport/attraction:
Bro WB,
I used to have a hard time finding women who wanted to be more
than friends with me. I had female "friends" coming out my ears -
and I was sick of it.
I HATED getting LJBF'd (Let's Just Be Friends)...
It drove me CRAZY.
Having attraction with women is no longer a struggle for me, and
there's one thing in particular I learned that made a real difference.
I'm gonna lay it on you now...
First of all, remember that women are like tuning forks and they
instantly pick up on what you are "resonating." Therefore, one
of the most powerful ways to deepen your resonance (presence)
is to:
Retrain Your Breathing.
I used to be what I call a "chest-breather." By that, I mean that
my inhalations went no lower than my chest - my ribcage.
A lot of guys who struggle with creating sexual attraction with
women are also "chest-breathers."
How about you?
As you're sitting here now, reading this, how deep is your breathing?
How far down into your body does your breath expand?
Try This Exercise:
RIGHT NOW, put a hand on your lower stomach, and draw air all the
way down past your ribs, and allow it to expand your diaphragm and
your belly. Your breath should literally PUSH THE HAND on your belly
UP with each inhale. Actually try this, and see what you notice.
Once you have that down (and for some guys, it takes a while to figure
out which muscles control this ability), practice breathing even lower,
into your genitals, as if you could breath right into your BALLS.
This may be a challenge for you, because you're not accustomed to
that particular awareness.
You may even experience emotions, or sometimes feelings of shame,
as you start feeling into these areas of your body.
That's a good thing-it means you're going outside of comfort zone
and accessing stuck emotions.
Women Can Feel the Difference
In our XX Intensive weekend courses, we bring in super-aware,
brilliantly articulate women who offer moment-to-moment feedback
about what they're feeling in their bodies as the men in the course
interact with them.
And when chest-breathers start belly-breathing, women who weren't
attracted to them at all suddenly feel excited by the man's new
sense of power.
And when guys breathe all the way into their balls, the women's
responses are even more distinct - they often report getting turned
on, simply by being around guys as they breathe more deeply.
Practice It To Make It a Habit
I had to retrain myself from being a chest-breather to being a balls &
belly-breather... and it made a huge difference in feeling grounded,
centered and powerful with women (especially the ones that I'm
attracted to).
Practice this even when you're NOT around women, until it becomes
second nature to you when you ARE with a woman - in the car,
walking down the street, while eating, in bed at night and in the
morning...
After a couple of weeks, you should find that you're breathing into
your belly without thinking about it.
Now, you may find that when you're with a woman you're seriously
attracted to, your breathing reverts back to the old way.
Even though I typically breathe into my lower body, when I'm with
women I'm attracted to, I suddenly find that my breathing becomes
shallow. If this is the case for you as well, just notice this, and
practice breathing fully and deeply, into your belly and your balls.
We have all KINDS of practical, effective body exercises that will
make a REAL difference in your ability to create primal sexual
attraction and deep connection with women...
Your Guru
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