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Originally Posted by Lieutenant_Thai
Hello to all bro, just want to share my story about me and my vietnamese girlfriend.
Hope you can give me proper guidance for me.
This started when i went down to a KTV few months back, got to know this vietnamese girl, sat with her then brought her out to lam tinh on that day, it turns out that she is a very nice girl as after that day, she followed me wherever i went, she even skipped work just to accompany me, not once not twice but everytime when we are together, i only went to this KTV once, so all the other times i went out with her was outside the KTV, we started having feeling for each other, went out to watch movies together, go to the beach, shopping and all the other events where couples do.
Felt very in love with her, she doesn't ask me for money even the subsequent times i brought her to hotel to lam tinh, she would even pay for my cab fare and sometimes meal we go on dutch, feeling really bad for making her follow me while she have to work,
i decided to give her money to go shopping and buy whatever she likes but she always decline the money i gave to her, but i usually will just slipped it into her handbag and once i send her home ill sms her that i have give her some allowance to spend. Her english is limited but our feelings speaks for us. This carry on for a few months then 1 day she went back to Vietnam, brought her to the airport and then she left, but before she left she gave me a home address, home number and cellphone number, tell me if 1day im going to visit vietnam she will bring me around.
After she left, we still got contact each other thru the phone and sms, just last week, i wanted to see her real bad, i book the ticket to HCMC told her that im comming, she told me that she is going to be free whenever im in vietnam. Btw she told me in vietnam she is working as pedicure. Once reach vietnam, saw her waiting for me outside the airport, got out and gave her a hug like long lost couple. She also brought her friend along, which speaks really good english, so we can communicate better, she brought me around HCMC. We took pictures together, eat together, sightseeing and explaining to me about vietnam. The 2nd day her friend have to work so she left, leaving me and my girlfriend. So we went out together again the 2nd day.
On the 3rd day i pack my bag as i only staying in vietnam for 3d2n. Then she send me to the airport and bid farewell, she told me that she will come back Singapore and find me nx month. So now im really confuse just to stick to her or not as i would like to be with her really bad, she have been really good to me all these while.
Any advise from any bros on what kind of girl will she be if i continue seeing her?
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Bro ....
I understand how you feel right now ... me too love at first sight and carry on for 1 year ...
I too flew to HCMC 1 month after she went back because really miss her alot ...
Imagine phone bills chalking up to $1.6K but then luckily subscribe to M1 paying additional $5 using the IDD as local call charges ... and paying $160 in final bills ...
I guess it all boils now to trust and acceptance .... BUT of course don't love blindly.
Even Bro KT took years to find out and accept ... guess you should learn from him ....
Especially when you are told not to go fetch her after work ... you mind might run wild, what is she up to ....
Especially when you can't contact her and nexy day she tells you she is drunk the night before ... hhahah .. runs wild again ...
Therefore, there is alot of spot checks, waiting ... like Bro KT said ... very tiring proccess ...
It also took me a while to accept and understand .... although we still quarrel abit here and there la ....
But then we are now happily married and she is now 2 months pregnant ...
End of the day ...
whats your tolerance level?
Whats your trust level?
whats your acceptance level?
Now + future or choose to lived in the past?
I guess bro here will agree ...
If you cannot afford to give $$ and support her ... then she has to work and you have to accept...
If you can't bare the fact she is working in these environmet ... then give $$ and support her ... so she no need to work ...