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Originally Posted by norice
etsys,
Not only newbies get burned, I've seen veterans too! It's just timing, luck and intestinal fortitude that will save you but too much empathy will make a sucker out of you all the time! It's nice to be generous, kind and giving but when I'm deceived by a bar girl then that's when I draw the line! I never got burned in Bangkok but got burned several times in Pattaya!
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The most important thing is this kind of situation is to have the strength and resolve to 'cut the loss and walk out' when things don't look good.
Investing more only will aggravate the problem by encouraging the girls that you are a sucker ..
And if you think one girl is screwed and want to switch, that is like committing suicide in Bars, especially when it comes to Philippines, because once you have shown yourself to be a sucker, you are a sucker. .. end of story.
Well, I will never blame the girls. Almost the same as in Philippines, I know enough guys who burn enough money in TP bars and PM bars - just for some rub-a-dub .. and then keep burning money for more LD hoping to get the girl, little do they know the girls don't have a target - their target is to make maximum money considering they are on Social visit pass..
And the girls in Philippines ? They are not too different I guess: they too are to make the maximum amount of money, and if they can do a runner and get some more sex from their passionate boyfriend - who doesn't pay money for sex - well, why not ?
Anyway, a sucker is born everyday .. we all learn ..
