[warbird]

Originally Posted by i12song

I wish I could BY-ing her...

Your time will come...

Originally Posted by vellamoose

WB, very good write ups and very educational. My humble respects to you

Bro, I'm humbled by ur flattering words.

IMHO, a truly dependable n trustworthy man is head n shoulders above all others, regardless of his current status n material possessions.

Originally Posted by jamezwit

Bro WB and other sifus have contributed a lot of knowledge and info here. Here is a brief sitrep of my BY experience.

After chionging KTVs, WLs from forums, and legal houses, I realised that I'm a know a person before sex (in fact, I prefer the term making love) type.............................................. So I posted a few ads, say some of my general terms and with preference for PRC students, and started on the journey to find exclusive baoyee GFs.

So far, I've had 5 baoyees, 1 from SG, 1 from MY, and 3 from PRCs. Interestingly, three of them are students (the SG, MY, and 1 PRC) while two are working professionals (really executive in real company that I pick up from their office more than a few times). All between 21-22 yo, except one.

During initial meet up to know each other sessions, I usually start with hand holding and short kisses first couple of times when go out for dinner or movie. I confirm the baoying by saying that they need to get their place so that we can meet discreetly. Even then, only heavy petting but no sex, and once they get more comfortable, after the first love making session, hug and don't let go and they won't let go as well if you really show that you care about them.

I'm direct with them as far as possible...............................

My BYs don't ask too much $$, some of them only ask to cover for lodging (a master room in a condo, although one had a common room but few other tenants and all work late so less people around the unit), others ask for room+allowance which I tell them upfront my limit of giving, they usually agree with it since they are not really desperate, or $$ is not the only reason. .......................................
always parted way amicably and usually because they finished their work permit stay or study.

Only thing is the relationship can be too deep, and they feel lonely and since the way I prefer is to have feelings, so they sticky a bit. But I get great love making after being didn't meet for a few days or a week or two. I think it's win-win in my BY experience so far. Only thing is got to filter a bit and it takes effort and time to read the girl's mind and to show concern. Sometimes just words and a hug they will cry on your shoulder. I'm no handsome man, so I've to double or triple on the attention and the small things............................................ ...sometimes just felt lonely and the way younger generation of PRC from city is more open, had sex early and some had relationship with older man already in PRC. It's eye opening talking to them (only after they are comfortable to open up about this part of their life).

Hi bro jamezwit,

Ths so much for sharing ur BY experiences w/ us.

You belong to the romantic n sensual type n u want to hv feelings n take ur time to court ur BAO-ees...n u make love to the them. You r the type preferred by most gals/women.

Unfortunately, I'm more like a beast, a predator n I want to fxk them asap. For me, feelings, if any, would come later...

I'll make a conscious effort to emulate ur method n go slow..

Cheers!

Originally Posted by gigigagago

[COLOR="Blue"]Hahaha 老大, your collection grew so much now I'm confused already. The SYT in China or the Jakarta one is the Dongbei girl? Your avatar is the Dongbei girl right? If my memory is still functional, it's this Dongbei chick whom you quite fancy under your parade of BY-ees, but eventually ended up in a rough relationship with a guy from her same hometown... Not quite sure if you know who I'm referring to. Hahaha. But from what I read you seem to quite like her a lot. Is she the one that's returning for your loving?[COLOR="Blue"]

Hi bro gigigagago,

I'm not a 老大, I'm a 老头子，hehe.

Yes, the tall gal in Jakarta is from Dongbei. She wants to meet me in Batam. The SYT in China is coming next month.

The gal in my avatar a SZ gal who fell in love w/ a fellow student from China. She is a pauper now n has very strained RS w/ her immature BF. She has made overtures...but I'm not sure if I want her again.

Actually, I hv another former mistress who just started work at 金沙 Jakarta! It's a posh joint. Has anyone been there before?

Cheers!

Originally Posted by gigigagago

Haha big bro, for others it may be "indequate self control", for you it's purely your confidence working ahead of you.

Oh, also, recently many countries are devaluing their currencies... Hope you're not affected, Bro WB. ..........

I need to rein in my didi to give the impression it's not a pure transaction. Many of them actually complain that 你一点感情都没有，你只要和我做爱 or worse, 你只要操我 (fxk me). I hv to learn to change my bad image...

So far the decline of the Greenback has not affected me much as I do hv assets in some Asian countries. It still hurts a bit.

Originally Posted by gigigagago

Nice! More and more Bao-ers appearing in this amazing thread! So happy, man. More and more esteemed masters to "leech" wisdom from. Hahaha. Big welcome to you Bro jamezwit!

Originally Posted by gigigagago

Haha in that case shouldn't I snag an Italian to close a hat-trick of Axis-ians?

Bro jamezwit is an experienced BAO-er n we hv much to learn from him. Hope that he will continue to share his wisdom n sexploits w/ us.

Yeah, all of us should keep a German, a Japanese n an Italian to complete the "Axis gals". They r very different, bro, hehehe.

Cheers!

Bro WB