[warbird]

Originally Posted by fun_n_pleasure

Thank you bro Warbird.....

I'm trying to absorb and internalised as much as I could. Many times, I believed I had made a break through... but when the time comes to action and application, often I still fumble.

For example, I took up the courage to approach a gorgeous gal and we exchanged contacts................................

Recently, we arranged to meet up and she suggested in a joking manner that we go to some "ulu" location. In my heart I was like yahooo.... ON liao. But... that's also when my weakness/fear kicks in...

Ok, the problem (real or imaginary I don't know yet), but here it is...

She's still in university, and I'm in my 30s and reaching 40 soon.......... well, long story short but suffice to say I'm finally honest with myself of what I want, and no longer ashame to go for it.

So back to topic, I knew in my head that self-mastery involved accepting myself for who I am, and I should not lie about my age. But I'm still just so insecure abt it and worry that she cannot accept it............................

I'm sure some of the bros here have encounter similar situation, and how do you guys managed it?....................

Any expenerices or thoughts? I hope to get some advise from the senior bros here instead of starting a new thread because I trust the bros here a lot more for the quality of the replies............

Hi bro fun_n_pleasure,

You're welcome!

You r young compared w/ me. I'm a lot older than all my gals' parents. Of course my mistresses r all "bot meat."

Even for non-WLs n I assume ur uni gal is a non-WL, ur perceived ranking on the Dominant Male Scale is the sole determinant of ur attractiveness to them. Period. "Perceived" is the key word here n ur ranking is manifested by ur attitude, voice tone, eye ctc, facial expressions n body language, etc.

And what is the secret ingredient of ur perceived dominant status n body language which is so attractive?

The caliber n depth of your Dominant Self Mastery and Emotional Control. Everything else is secondary.

Tell her ur DOB. Whatever her conscious response, including outright rejection which is very unlikely, remain unfazed, unmoved n unflappable, hehehe. It's a great oppty to show her ur manliness n ur awesome self mastery/emotional control. It will set u apart from the pretenders who r nothing but boys w/ aging bodies. Her subconscious response (which she herself may not even be aware of ) will shock u.

You will get her pussy. She can't help herself...

Cheers!

Bro WB

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

Bro WB...I am finding it increasingly difficult to be excited by sex...and find it harder and harder to cum as I am just so bored by most women....women who excites me are forbidden fruits whom I can't touch....any ideas? hehe

Hi bro ME,

A young n virile man like u? It must be psychological. If u can last an hr, it would be a great blessing. I wish I could.

Or perhaps u r fxking the wrong women.

Forbidden fruits? I hope they r not married women or ur relatives. Everyone else is fair game to me, hehehe.

Bro WB

Originally Posted by sexonair

To Fun N Pleasure,

Different girls have different tastes. Some girls prefer mature guys. Some crazy girls also prefer married guys because they don't want commitment.........
Not necessary every girl you come across, must try to ride on her. A real player will act cool but not acting desperate. Some girls seeing you so desperate will try to play hard to get to make you high and dry.

.........I just feel that as we get older, we have to behave like a sniper, look carefully for a target, aim properly and then squeeze one round and then mission completed.

Hi bro sexonair,

Ths for ur excellent post.

Originally Posted by fun_n_pleasure

To bro MoralEpitome,

Nobody is implying that uni gals are young and foolish or they're not horny. .......It is obvious that many of you senior bros here are still banging young chicks, so the question really is how (beside showing lots of cash)?


Bro sexonair, thanks for making some really good points.....

You know, as I typed this... my mind start to clear and it seems like I found the answer to my own question.............

So the answer actually digs deep into who I REALLY AM... goes back to the question of self-mastery. It's not about Age, but about how one behave and carry himself that projects confidence and value that makes one attractive. And if I still get myself worry over the opinion of a girl (or a few girls), it only means I have much to improve upon myself. Cause if I'm not there yet.. it simply means I'm not there... and I'll still not get the girls I want even if I'm 10yrs younger.

In other words, its not the age but who you really are that matters. Make sense?

Originally Posted by fun_n_pleasure

Let me add on with an example... .........

Being Alpha, we shouldn't place too much importance on any particular woman. Being Alpha also means we should not compromise our own integrity for the sake of some young pussy. Yes, we may sometimes lose a few chicks who have a certain age preference, but lying about our age is like considering ourselves not good enough for her. And I refuse to believe that.

Hi bro fun_n_pleasure,

Excellent posts. You hv answered ur own questions.

I like to reiterate that nothing else matters if a man has formidable Dominant Self Mastery n Emotional Control.

Cheers!

Bro WB