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Originally Posted by warbird
I hv some new thoughts on COS n sex mastery which may be controversial. Of course a man can use his tongue n fingers only to give a gal endless COS. No big deal really as even a female or eunuch can give her the same pleasure. In my personal experience, using my tongue n fingers is only the prelude to the real thing. Perhaps it's more psychological than physiological, but some of my mistresses appear to derive more pleasure when I'm fxking them long n hard. They never seem to hv enuff n always want my didi in their pussies for longer!
Unfortunately, I seldom last longer than 20 min. According to some gurus, a man needs to last 60 min or longer to really rock a gal's bottom.
According a Jewish guru, the prerequisite to be a sex master is a man's ability to fxk a gal for a least 60 min vigorously n continuously, the longer the better.
Bro WB
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Actually, I agree that for some reason, the gal needs to get the ol dickie in there to feel complete. All my baoees/ FBs etc have commented on that whenever our pillow talk moves to sex. Was talking to my Singapore gal FB last year and she said that the quality of her cums in her pussy depended on whether it was a cock or a finger stimulating her to orgasam.
In my trigger happy 30s I usually had to discard load 1 real quick - so after using the finger/tongue routine to get her to have multiple cums, I would ram her quick and shoot. Load 2 would naturally take a while so had no problem lasting. My old boss then, watching porn with me in London one day, was commenting that the dude dicking away, musta shot his load sometime back and was being filmed on Load 2 ... always remembered that comment and could relate to it.
Now that the clock has moved me into the next decade, I somehow developed some dickhead immunity so can go pretty long without shooting. For instance, when back for fuckathons in China with my mainland baoee, the first hour is pretty quick - once she cums, I'm shooting wild all over her ovaries. In the loast trip, we were in bed the whole am after landing at Pudong, shot twice - headed for a meeting in the pm, charged back to the room by late pm, dicked her without coming for an hr. We headed out for dinner a movie and was back tearing her clothes off for a 2 h session before shooting and sleeping.
The rest of the days were more like as follows: start off with a good morning poke (might as well, since I almost always get up with an early am erection - but, no cum for me), off to breakfast n work (she is the type that gets shagged into stupor by orgasm - so I order in for her). Back by the pm and a repeat of the 1st day pm/night routine more or less. 1 shot a day usually, after day 1.
The China baoee is a real long term investment - checked out clean and so we do it w/o CD and in every style possible. Contrasted with the cautious moves here with potential baoees, ST flicks, FBs with no commitment etc back here, I kinda notice the sex quality is different and my interest in bonking is less intense than with the mainland baoee. it may be the following issues that also affect our "lasting" -
(a) CD effects - dun like the way the bloody sensation, especially when entering, is dulled by the CD barrier. With my mainland baoee, one of the best sensations we have is in keeping the dickhead right at her entrance when she's wet and rimming it, entering a few cm only in and out and gently rubbing against her lips until we both buay da han and then ramming it home: the way her eyes flick wide open and her gasping - wow, million dollar moment. If the gal in SG is not the wet type, damn, it's always a challenge and a sex thrill killer for me to have to try to re-enter and probe. Get sian quite fast.
(b) Firing position: I started noticing that whilst I could last, there were times I was having trouble shooting. Finally discovered with the mainland baoee, that there was a certain position, missionary style, where I had to have her head off a pillow and flat on the bed, grabbing her chest and she hooking her arms under mine and hugging real tight, her legs being straight and on the inside and mine just outside, but pressing her legs inwards and increasing the tightness round her lovehole. Whilst ramming continuously and frenching, I found that I could crack didi's resistance and shoot real fast. Tried that with a couple of FBs in SG and seems to be the right firing position. So that's what I avoid if I wanna go on and on without shooting. Handy to know a good firing posn 'cause when having a few STs early this year and finding myself unable to fire, it was kind of frustrating as the WL would be shagged out, throwing up reasons to end the fuxk session and I would be finding it unsextisfying to leave without shooting.
(c) Sex thrills: was with a SYT stunner in SG once, had dinner and ego boost with the number of heads turning and went off to bonk. Dicked her with CD and all, she came kinda fast a couple of times but with my sensations dulled I did not cum. Stupid a/c was kinda low so I was dripping a little and she was obviously a little sensitive to the beads of sweat on her. Got kinda sian and stopped to adjust the a/c. Re-entry was challenging and from the way she was sending body lang signals, could tell she was being a bit reticent. Can't really blame her as we are new to each other. She wasn't too much into advanced sex: frenching (3/10 type). Cunnilingus? Couple of flicks and she jams her thighs claiming not to be used to it, too degrading for 老公 to go tunnelling below etc etc. Lil bro was soon on strike. Diplomatically maneouvred an end to the session. Got a little troubled thinking if the problem was with me. Decided to do an experiment: on way back, called one of my regular massage FBs, got there - told her I was tired, she gave a good sexy rub, BJ and before long, under all the sexy moves and thrills, lil dickie was like the cock of my 30s, capped and was ramming her till she was calling for mercy after cumming a few times. I adopted firing position and voila - done, one big load fired off. Now re-assessing whether to continue with the SYT. There was some discussion some threads back about whether sex with MILF/ SYT was better - the drawback with SYTs (at least those that I had) has been their frigidity and lower inclination to experiment. Trouble is I think a lot of sex is mental: so if the gal is acting real sexy, lasting is not gonna be an issue. If only finding sex kitten SYTs weren't so hard for me in SG ...
