Hfj aa
I choose my nick, because i was trying to escape from HFJs, and not very successful to be frank over the last two years.
It took me close to two years, to really absorb the lessons, the heartache and my savings depleted and massive debt incurred and career gone before i can safely say, i am now truly no longer a newbie.
What really would have helped, would have been a been a group of brothers, that could have gone through the same experience and willing to share the experience and guidance for those that are in pain and looking for some guidance to quit.
HF is a lonely experience, behind the facade its all about stress, anxiety and despair for those with a normal job, that is not high paying.
I am thinking of setting up a non profit patterned after alcoholics anonymous, just a small gathering at first for those who have gone through the phase and are willing to share the stories and strategies to help fellow brothers in the process of getting out of the scene as an ideal.
Both as part of an healing process and also partially coming to terms with an addiction to HFJ.
For those willing to help out or just to extend an helping hand.
There are now over 350 HFJs as of last year, this year, it seems that some are telling me that it is closer to 400....
Cheers
Escapee
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