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Originally Posted by jasdude
Starting from initial attraction , lust to trust and companionship . A FB that can be your alternate soul mate is the ultimate you can get
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Originally Posted by whiteangelcsh
Probably the fear of being falling in love?
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Originally Posted by jasdude
Yes there is always a possibility when you meet someone that stimulate you mentally and physically ! But as long both talk things out initially and both understand each others need for comfort and support . it can be a very long lasting relationship . COMMUNICATION is the key to unlock the FEEL for each other .
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Originally Posted by jasdude
We are all humans beings not devoid of feelings . however , if the FB is married or both married ! do reconsider the Consequences of your actions cos responsibilities to the family must not be forsaken .
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Originally Posted by whiteangelcsh
I would reckon tt it's the mentality of one's maturity over such relationship.....at certain point of time in our life, despite whether attached or married, one would hv needs, not juz sexual needs but tt of a confide. Someone whom u juz like to relax, share moments/thoughts, hv sex and then go back to ur normal life.....Friends with Benefits - someone who u can share ur senses, period.
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Originally Posted by gotcraft30
I guess the trick is finding that balance. Someone who is crazy enough to risk morals and family for you but still logical enough to know that it is the best you can do in the situation that you are in.  |
Is your partner (gf/bf/wife/hubby) your soul mate? If he/she is not, the chances of your FB being your alternate soul mate can indeed be very possible.
Most of the times, most people entered into such lifestyle without the slightest intention to get involved emotionally for fear of falling in love. It's all about instant gratification. In fact, some went in head on saying it's all just sex & no love.
I guessed all of that is easy as long as one understands the rules of the game & stick with it. However, when your "alternate soul mate" appeared, nothing can stop the rush of emotions flooding the gates of the heart. There is no denial when you experience that mutual physical & sexual chemistry or attraction to each other, and no, it's no longer lust.
I discovered probably the only way to ensure never to get emotions involved is to just "fxxx & go". Leave your emotions at the door. That also means no lunch, no dinner, no sms, no small talk, no sharing about your life or day except the basics.
But honestly, all of us crave for that magical feel .... to love and be loved deep inside. FBs give us that temporal feel. And most of us are happy with that. But once that magical person "accidentally" appeared, who seems to be able to fill that void in your heart that your gf/bf/wife/hubby cannot fulfil, a long lasting relationship can be built. And when it happens the most unexpectedly, it can be the most beautiful thing.
For now, whether the relationship last or not is secondary ....
I just want to make the best of it, treasure every moment of it while it last.
I believe it's "better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all'
... thanks for loving me .........