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Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom
Bro I.K, my thoughts are in agreement with the phrase 猪朋狗友,夜夜萧歌.
It was someone who introduced me to HFJ  and i had to buy my first bottle... and my first flower.
So it is definitely, the right people or wrong people that makes all of the difference.
Had to learn a lesson, the wrong way.
People live their lives in social circles, I visualise it simply as the shopping centre at parklane, during day time, it is normal, at night it becomes a different place altogether....
The wrong friends can lead one down the wrong path completely. |
These types of 夜夜萧歌猪朋狗友 are aplenty in HFJ/KTV and night joints. Especially free loaders and using our ass as their face. Most often than not, these "dog meat friends" are not trustworthy and reliable nor good at at keeping confidence and will tell everyone at the 1st opportunity and spreading rumors. One do not expect them to defend you when you are in trouble. They will just go with the flow of change of events. I personally had terminated and kicked out 1-2 of them among my groups of friends/bros. Normally, these are those that got involved with my groupies through introduction by other friends/bros and mind you, they are not poor or jobless but professional with good salary (in fact, we do not mind at all if our friends/bros are tight on cash or in trouble cos we will offer help all the way)
Anyway, being Good Friends/Bros are not just about having a good time with others. It's far more important than just drinking, cheonging, talk cocks and singing songs. It involves meaningful conversation and sincerity that is more than just an acquaintances and are willing to put friends 1st or point out when they're doing something we don't agree with. Most importantly, willing to make available to friends at short notice and welcome them if they turn up at our doorsteps.
You be surprised that even in this thread there are a few of them that can keep in a "potential reallife goodfriend book" even though their style might not be your cup of tea. I did actually.
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Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom
i am not going to hang any single dollar for HFJs till, i get my life back on track.
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It is a wise decision
