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Originally Posted by KangTuo
i kaypo abit. just be very patient. actually 5mth is not very long being that it is an oversea relationship. furthermore you been to vn few times only. communication is very important to understand each other. argument is also part and parcel of a relation. if becoz of abir arguement then breakoff, it shows that both are not ready.
the way the vb ask where, what, who is the way they show concern. its not mind game. the fact that one is far apart and just few mths into relationship, one will want to find out more of your daily chores only. if you feel tight up by all these question, i can say you are not ready to settle in a relationship.
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totally agree..communication plays a vital role. The funny part of them even they know you are telling the truth of where you are now etc , they would still act like you "xao nhieu wa'" which I sometimes really speechless.
Not really tight up by the qns, but sometimes feels a little funny as in everyday the same qns is pop up. so far never argue till mention the word of "chet da" not sure if spell correct. would see how also as she is not from a poor family also which worries me abit too as I understand vietnam always talke about "face".
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Originally Posted by shysaint
Bro KT give you a very good insight into r/s with a VN gal, he is much more experienced than me  and slowly there will be more experienced bro coming in to give you their advice
My 2 cts contribution:
Aa part of the VN cultures , the qns of where, what, who, when , why is not to qn you .. it's their way of showing concern like BRo KT said .. NOT many are into honey honey type of words that will make you feel high ...
IF you found one of those who can honey honey you, high chance they will KC you .. 
Argument ... part and parcel of life if you can't speak their language, because the way to express in English is somehow different from the way it's express in VN ...
Yes, they love you, they will take care of you and other things ...
5mths is not very long, yes by bringing you home, the chances of success is high but then still you need to developed more ... stay with her more ,, visit her more ...
LIke many of our post .... $$$$ is not a big problem ... but .. it's the time you CAN spent with her and Visit her ... you have to evaluate your frequency of visiting her ...
LAst but not least ... BE Patient , BE Sensible, OPen your Eyes and Ears ...
There are many many ... slowly riase your quries and bros here will give you their advice |
Bro, maybe have not known the culture over there enough by asking the where,what,when is shown concern for vietnam girls but at least I understand why now.
K/p abit..even till today when you & bx marry, she still ask the where,when & what question as & went? hehe.
I rather not have those sweet talk as we all know is not realistic. she would rather spent the night with me in yahoo video call chatting about her day time things & etc ..this also could know i am home but not outside..haha.
"yes by bringing you home, the chances of success is high" sorry bro...whats channce of success is high are we talking about here? need your elaborate.
All 3 trips are at least 2 weeks about only the recent one, which last about close to a month. I spent my tet with her family.. all I can say in vietnam tet is gamble non-stop for 4 days & drink with his dads & relative from morning till night no problem... Xin nhieu wa'. lolz.
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Originally Posted by Hurricane88
Who divorce once?
Many examples in this thread if you can read them...know it is alot to read but then answers are the same...experiences are priceless... |
she divorce once which was beginning last year & her ex-hub remarry already
Not too sure issit very common over there like singapore nowdays.