[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by SureScore

Originally Posted by haojian
I got married to a vietnamese wife through an agency two years ago. She bore me a son and a daughter. Now my son is 13 months old and my daughter is 1.5 months old.

Now she tells me that she dont feel anything when i touch her. she says she have this feeling after since after our wedding night. then she says she heard from her friend that when a wife tells her husband she have no feelings for him, they divorce shortly after. And she asks me if I would do the same to her???

Shortly after giving birth to my daughter, she started slimming down and making up to look even better than before our marriage. and she mentioned before during our arguments that she is young and can look for another husband. I can divorce her and pay her alimony and expenses for the children. Now she is asking for more money, even borrowing from my mum. She also mentioned buying and selling land in vietnam.

What should I do? Please advise.
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I suggest you try to handle this carefully. If possible avoid divorce and try to make up. The young children need their mother and father to grow up properly.

Brother, you got swindled. The problem with these women from the third world is when they divorce you the economics tilt in their favor when before marriage you were in control. The best thing to do right away is to protect your assets as best as you can and prepare for her departure. I would get full custody of the kids. Any woman leaving a man with kids that young really doesnt love the kids if it is such an easy decision for her. That's what happens when we let those people into SG.