1st and foremost, I am a noob and newbie in these joints.
I agreed these are ghosts and I have no empathy for them morally nor do I care about the circumstances why they are here.
IMHO, I do not think that anyone should feel that the flowers and fees entitled oneself to whatever he wants, whenever he wants it, however he wants to do it and if someone is hurt, that is not his problem cos the "fees" he pays covers all damages.