My main post for this thread.
There is hope even in HFJ and I just want to share.
1.) I was lucky
2.) I only spent 80k during my girl's 6 months and went astray for another 20k in HFJ withdrawal process (the final straw that broke the camel's back and resulted in my retirement from HFJ)
3.) My girl is still with me today and of all the "couples" during my time from our favorite HFJ, I can only say that we are the only couple that "survivied".
p/s: I did put up $ for an apartment in China and am supporting her monthly
Morale of post:
Love can still be found in HRJ but I think I am one of the lucky few that has managed to find a partner that was willing to give up all the "easy money" and stayed true to a relationship.
However, HFJ is really not the place to find true love....if its cheonging that you enjoy, stay clear and stick with KTVs....u will still find that beautiful china girl or fantastic singer...maybe slower searching process but definitely at much less fraction of costs with slightly lesser heartaches...
Cheers