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Originally Posted by The Lord
I am yet to learn how to differentiate a girl who wants u from a girl after ur wallet.... Especially cause these r bar girls
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Ah my good friend. Trying to find the words to make it easy and simple but can't do it in a simple sentence, so just for you I will now type out a more detail lesson.
Easiest answer is you can't. What others have said is too often true and they are there with only money in mind, but as in anything in life, there are always exceptions.
From my experiences:
The only way to know is to actually take out the same gal more than ONCE. (most of us just bang them once and move on). The 1st time you will already get a "feel" for how she feels towards you. Most will already seem mechanical and rehearsed (faking their feelings). Some will seem indifferent= don't care if you BF them or not. Some will already make you feel like a long lost lover-- these are the ones with the greatest potentials, but note that even most of these are just "playing or acting" but a few will turn out to be genuine b/c many of them do get lonely and wish to be taken out like your true GF instead of just barhopping and bonking. And usually after maybe 2-3 times and you will now know for certain.
Again another note: the problem with this is that most of us don't stay in AC long enough to make it worthwhile. By this I mean (from experience) when I do find one that I find to be truly into me and not look at me like a walking ATM machine it is already time to leave AC. This game is best played by expats living in AC or those staying in AC for longer periods of time (beyond 3-4 weeks).
Just for the record, I once was lucky enough to stay in AC for nearly 3 months and during this entire time only manage to find 2 gals that were genuine (meaning they liked me for being me and not as a walking ATM). Unfortuately, It takes time and money to weed out the fakes so those on limited time its best to pick up as many as possible and hope to get lucky as it is sometimes a lottery and if you do it enough times you will get lucky. Remember, The odds are NOT always against you.
Lord, your wish is my command.
Cheers buddy.
PT