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Originally Posted by Jackal Junior
Okay so I'm a completely new noob to this and will appreciate hearing from those who are experienced in this and have gone down this road before...
What are your views and advice on the best way of broaching the issue or opening negotiations with the girl?
There is this Shenyang girl in TAM that I sat in one of the recent outings, she is MCOT and speaks good english and is a good conversationalist, beyond the mindless bimbo talk that many meimeis seem only capable of. Of course she claims she only "sits" and does not go for ST, has never gone out/slept with customers before and has even rejected previous offers of exclusivity ie. baoing by other men. And of course I am taking this with many many pinches of salt. I have gone out with her once after that, just for drinks and nothing else. Thing is, I have dropped many hints and she has flat out not picked up on them. I am planning to raise it directly with her the next time; in fact I intend to bluntly ask her to just spend the nite with me, dinner, drinks and sleepover in my hotel room. If she says okay, I can assess her performance and decide whether to take it further. But if she says no, then I am just going to forget it, albeit with a tinge of regret.
What do you seniors think of this approach?
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Hi Bro JJ, I’m no senior but here’s my 2 cents…
I think you can find out from the mummy – she should be able to tell you whether the gal is open to ST/bao-ing. Failing which, just ask her directly lor, since she has completely ignored all your hints and acted blur. Some gals prefer to get to know her customer a bit better first (just another excuse IMO) or simply just need that extra push/nudge. Sometimes, I enjoy the BGR process or simply the company, other times when I don’t have the luxury of time, I go WL/FL.